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Easton Mountain is a community, retreat center, and sanctuary created by gay men as a gift to the world. Through workshops, programs, and events we provide opportunities to celebrate, heal, transform, and integrate body, mind, and spirit. We offer our land, rich in beauty and wisdom, as a home to a community that extends beyond the land. We are a worldwide fellowship of people enriched by our connection to Easton Mountain. This fellowship is a force for positive change in the world.

We value:

  • Each individual's spiritual path and the quest for connection and understanding.

  • Stewardship of our beautiful earth.

  • The joy and wisdom our bodies bring.

  • Expressions of love, intimacy, and erotic communion.

  • Service, and those who strive to make life better for others.

  • Creativity, celebration, fun, and gaiety.

  • Respect, honesty, and the peaceful resolution of conflict.

  • Community, the support it provides, and the strength and love it brings.

  • Work towards peace, nonviolence, and social justice; ending oppression, and healing its impact on all people.

  • Hospitality that welcomes all others as sisters and brothers.

Read more about the values of Easton Mountain in essays by Michael Bernard Kelly


Photo of John Stasio, Founding Director

By John Stasio  -  The seeds for Easton Mountain were planted in my psyche as far back as my college years when I lived in a student community committed to social justice. Haley House was the one place on campus where it was safe and welcoming for Gay students to meet. It was in fact a sanctuary.

Later in my life I was working as a massage therapist and body worker. My practice, housed in a Jesuit rectory, was largely for Gay men, many of whom were trying to stay healthy as they dealt with being either infected with or affected by HIV. The JUC, or Jesuit Urban Center, was one of a few Catholic Churches in Boston in the early years of the epidemic where Gay men and persons with HIV were welcomed and treated with dignity and respect. Many family members who sought to have the funeral of their loved ones at other locations told stories of being refused ministry from their suburban parishes and funeral homes. Again I found myself living and working in what could easily be described as an urban sanctuary.

As the plague of HIV continued to claim the lives of friends and loved ones, the desire for refuge grew as a need in my life. This need was echoed by the colleagues and friends whom I asked early in 1989 to plan and lead a men\'s retreat with me. We planned and sponsored a retreat for men who love men and titled the experience AWWOB — A Weekend With Our Brothers. It was the first of scores of gatherings that would be sponsored by a community of men that would later incorporate as Brothers Together ( BT ). BT would offer weeklong and weekend programs that hundreds of men would experience as a safe and supportive place in their lives, and for a decade we were in fact creating a temporary bit of sanctuary.

These experiences along with many others would send a small group of men in search of real estate in the summer of 1999. We visited farms, cabins and tracks of land in New England and Upstate New York and finally end up at a dilapidated ski resort in the town of Easton, NY and began what has been a decade-long experiment in creating community and offering a place of sanctuary. What follows is a piece of that story.

After a long and difficult negotiation, and with the help of a business partner who would remain with the project for only a few months, I managed to acquire Easton Mountain. The 175 acres of mountain, fields, ponds, streams, orchards and buildings had been called the Phoenix resort, and had been sitting abandoned for the five years prior to our arrival. My vision was clear, at least to me, as I had been dreaming a quasi-utopian dream for nearly twenty years. With a group of committed men we would create a place apart from the world where we could grow and heal, play and pray, dream big dreams and wild schemes for making the world a better place. From this hilltop the light of our queer gifts could shine for all the world to see and we could spawn a revolution of love, or at least, as Peter Maurin would say; we could build a world in which it is easier for men to be good.

Next, with the help of some buddies, I assembled a plan and wrote to everyone who I thought might help with this endeavor. In my solicitation letter, I told them what I wanted to do. I put together some numbers, pictures, ideas and then described the vision this way:

Easton Mountain will be the home to a spiritual community dedicated to transforming and healing the human soul. We commit to living lightly on the earth, promoting social justice, and celebrating together. We vow to spread beauty and encourage creativity. We value openness and a radical hospitality, which seeks to embrace all others as sisters and brothers. We respect the wisdom of the body, the interdependence of all life, and non-violence in the resolution of conflicts. We promote peace and freedom for all. We seek an ever-deepening connectedness to self, others, and all of creation.

I tried to make a case that we could do something wonderful if we had help. I said a prayer and I mailed out a stack of plans. To my amazement only a few days later checks started arriving and the phone started to ring.

From the start, I wanted to bring the gifts I had received on my journey to bear on the creation at Easton Mountain.

John Stasio is the founder of Easton Mountain, a multi-faith retreat center and spiritual community of men who love men. John was a member of the Jesuit Urban Center's Urban Ministry team where he provided spiritual direction and bodywork to people living with HIV/ AIDS. He is a former seminarian and member of the Catholic Worker Community. He splits his time between sharing a home with his partner and a golden retriever in Albany and retreating to a cabin in the woods of Easton Mountain.

This article was written by  John Stasio  for White Crane magazine in April 2009. For the original article  click here.


Easton Mountain is the home of an Interfaith Spiritual Community of queer people. This community is comprised of full and part-time residents who work in some capacity as the staff of the Easton Mountain Retreat Center.

Current Residents and Staff

Board of Directors

  • Raul Castanon, President

  • Tim Cooley

  • Daniel Germazian, Secretary

  • Michael Gilroy

  • Eshan LaCoste

  • John Stasio, Founder


Learn about our lodging choices for retreats and events!


Semi-Private rooms are located in our guest house and have 2 full size beds. They have has electricity, heat, a shared bathroom, linens, and pillows. Guest staying in Semi-Private rooms will have a roommate assigned to them.


Quad rooms are located in our guest house and have 2 sets of bunk beds. They have electricity, heat, a shared bathroom, linens, and pillows. Guest staying in Quad rooms may have up to 4 roommate assigned to them.


The Garden Cabin is a bunkhouse-style cabin with 5 sets of bunk beds. It has electricity, heat, linens, and pillows. There is a compost toilet off the deck, and showers and bathrooms are nearby in the lodge. Guests staying in the Garden Cabin may have up to 9 roommates assigned to them.


During warmer weather, you can pitch your own tent on the land! Bathroom and shower facilities are located in the main lodge>



Click here for more information on our different types of lodging!

  • The Great Room - The main meeting space at Easton Mountain. Located on the upper level of the Lodge, it is a spacious, sunny, 60' x 40' room with a wood-burning fireplace, hardwood floors, and large windows on three walls. This space is ideal for large group gatherings and may be set up in a variety of ways, depending upon the needs of your group.

  • The Dining Room - Meals are generally served buffet-style in our Dining Room, located on the upper level of the Lodge. Our Dining Room can seat up to 24 people, with additional seating available in the Sunroom (24 people); and additional seating can be provided in the Great Room (up to 100 additional people).

  • The Sunroom - A room on the upper level of the Lodge with a beautiful view of the pond and which may be used for additional dining and meeting space. It has a gas-powered fire and comfortable seating. It is a lovely place to relax, talk to new friends, watch a movie, or hold an intimate meeting of up to 32 people.

  • The Spa Area - Includes a hot tub with a beautiful view of the pond and mountains, massage room, and two bathrooms with showers, On the ground level of the Lodge.

  • The Sauna - Our octagonal, wood-burning, freestanding Sauna in the woods is available year-round. It can accommodate up to 20 people.

  • The Temple - An interfaith sanctuary located adjacent to the pond with lovely views of the water and mountains. Conveniently located near the Lodge, it is perfect for rituals, workshops, meditation, or meeting space. It can be set up in a variety of formats to suit your group's needs.

  • The Outdoor Pool - Our freestanding above-ground Pool is available in the warmer months. Complete with deck, it offers views of the woods.

  • The Guest House - Offering two room options, our two-story Guest House includes in-suite bathrooms with shower, and wifi access. Room options include two beds or two bunkbeds. (Room shown is a Semi Private)

  • The Garden Cabin - A dormitory-style accommodation with five bunk beds, our Garden Cabin offers wifi access and shared toilet facilities. Shower facilities are located on the ground level of the Lodge, approximately 500 feet away.

Guests are also welcome to bring their own tent and camp in a variety of beautiful locations on the land. From a platform right on the duck pond to our hillside next to the Guest House, this option allows you to enjoy the beautiful land while still offering you the comforts of facilities available at the Lodge.


Easton Mountain is committed to sharing our financial information with our donors and full extended community. To view our 2014 990, please CLICK HERE.

To receive a more comprehensive "Budget Narrative" report, please email our board treasurer Andrew Kerivan at and we can email or mail you a copy. 

If you have any questions, comments, or concerns, please email Andrew as well, and/or Easton's General Manager, Miguel Villalobos, at